Big Idea: Paul, like Jesus, says that the new-covenant ethic is love. The thesis here is simple: love sincerely. Love should be shown toward God, fellow believers, and even nonbelievers who persecute Christians. Thus, Paul’s ethic continues the radical call by Jesus to his disciples to love one another. To love others is to sacrificially accept the new-covenant stipulation to love.
Understanding the Text
Romans 12:9–21 continues the theme of being a living sacrifice (12:1–2) by loving others. Romans 12:9 and 12:21 form an inclusio for the intervening verses: to love is to avoid evil and cling to good. Although a sequential outline is difficult to identify in 12:9–21, a topical outline does emerge:
1. Love God (12:11–12)
2. Love one’s fellow Christians (12:10, 13, 15, 16)
3. Love one’s enemies (12:14, 17–21)
Historical and Cultural Background
1. Verse 13b mentions the importance of hospitality in the early church. Third John 5–8 shows how important hospitality was in the early Christian centuries for the spreading of the gospel. There were inns, but these were of ill repute; most travelers preferred to find lodging with friends, relatives, and acquaintances or those to whom they bore letters of introduction and recommendation (see Matt. 10:9–13; 2 Cor. 3:1; Heb. 13:1–2).
2. Paul speaks of persecution in 12:14, 17–21. Up until AD 64–67, there was no real imperial harassment of the early Christians. Nero changed that, however, with his persecution of Christians in Rome, a precedent followed by Domitian after him (AD 81–96).
3. Several traditions inform Romans 12:9–21. The first is Jewish wisdom.1The second is Jesus’ teachings in the Sermon on the Mount/Plain.2The third, I suggest, is the covenant. Jesus’ new-covenant command to love one another resonates throughout this passage. Moreover, the “two ways” tradition (see Deut. 30:15–20)—choose good or choose evil—is echoed in 12:9, 21. Indeed, the entire passage is about manifesting good by loving God and others and avoiding evil by renouncing selfishness and revenge (in 12:19 Paul quotes Deut. 32:35, about vengeance belonging to God).
Interpretive Insights
12:9 Love must be sincere. In the New Testament the word agap? can express the highest form of love: God’s commitment to his children (Rom. 5:5, 8; 8:39; cf. 8:35). Verse 9 says that Christians are to pass that love on to others.3(Although the verb agapa? can also be used of selfish love in Paul’s writings and elsewhere [see 2 Tim. 4:10; cf. 1 John 2:15], the context of agap? here is that of altruistic love.) To love others is to cling to what is good. Not to do so is to give place to selfishness, revenge, and evil. The latter is to be hated.
12:10–12 Be devoted to one another in love. Verse 10 is the first of a number of verses in this paragraph that focus on loving other Christians. The phil- root, used twice here—in brotherly love (philadelphia) showing family affection (philostorgoi) to one another—refers to familial love.4Christians are to treat each other as brothers and sisters in the family of God. Verse 10b is translated either, “showing the way to one another in honor,” or “Honor one another above yourselves.” The second translation is thought by some to ironically breed pride—outdo one another in showing love. But that need not be the case. Moreover, the latter translation is parallel to Philippians 2:3 (“in humility preferring others as more excellent than yourselves”). So the second translation is probably correct. Paul’s command here to “honor others” (especially the Christian family) above oneself is a healthy corrective to the natural self-centeredness that plagues us all, but it does not rule out self-respect.
12:11 Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor. Verses 11–12 focus on loving God. It is true that “zeal” and “spiritual fervor” should characterize the Christian’s love for fellow believers, but even that is ultimately an act of service to the Lord. Such zeal for serving the Lord comes from being energized by the Spirit. Behind “keep your spiritual fervor” is the verb ze?, which means “to bubble, boil.” The “bubbling up, boiling over” work of the Holy Spirit in the human spirit is the key to being faithful to the Lord.
12:12 Be joyful in hope . . . faithful in prayer. Verse 12 is also God-directed: during trials, Christians should place their hope in God. Indeed, it is prayer that reminds God’s children of their destiny (hope) when they are experiencing the furnace of affliction. The early church was devoted to prayer (Luke 18:1; Acts 1:14; 2:42; 6:4; 1 Thess. 5:17; Eph. 6:18; Col. 4:2).
12:13 Share with the Lord’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality. Verse 13 returns to loving others, particularly the family of God. Two acts of love are specified: share with God’s people in need and be hospitable. The early Christians wonderfully demonstrated charity to one another and beyond to the watching world. Regarding hospitality, the progress of the gospel depended on Christian homes being open to itinerant missionaries.
12:14 Bless those who persecute you . . . do not curse. Verse 14 focuses on the need for Christians to love nonbelievers, even those who persecute the church. We noted above the stages of persecution of early Christianity by the Roman government. But such persecution also came from Jews who opposed the gospel, as Acts and the letters of Paul illustrate. But, rather than to retaliate, Paul challenges believers to bless their persecutors, not curse them. Two traditions inform this command: Jesus’ teaching (Matt. 5:44; Luke 6:27–28) and the covenant. Regarding the covenant, James Dunn points out that blessing those who persecute is an advance beyond the attitude of the Old Testament (Gen. 12:3; 27:29; Num. 24:9; cf. 1QS 2.10; Matt. 5:38–44).5The lex talionis—the law of proportionate judgment (“Only an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth”)—is taken to a new and different level by Jesus and Paul. When persecuted, the Christian is to respond not in kind (curse them) but in love (bless them). The new covenant’s stipulation of love eclipses the old covenant’s law of retaliation.
12:15 Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. Verse 15 uses Greek infinitives to express admonitions to love fellow Christians: chairein (“rejoice”) and klaiein (“weep”). Rejoicing with those who rejoice and weeping with those who weep are tangible ways to love the family of God. One might find it odd that Paul should first command Christians to rejoice with others. But, as John Chrysostom observes, such rejoicing is harder because it “requires a very noble soul, so as not only to keep from envying, but even to feel pleasure with the person who is in esteem” (Hom. Rom. 22).6
12:16 Live in harmony . . . Do not be conceited. Verse 16a returns to participles to express commands: living in harmony and not being proud.7Humility and harmony go hand in hand, while pride and conceit breed division. With these thoughts, Paul may be broaching the subject of unity among Jews and Gentiles in the Roman congregations (see Rom. 14–15). One way to diffuse pride is to associate with less fortunate people (12:16b).8This is what Jesus was noted for, and so too should his followers be.
12:17–21 Do not repay anyone evil for evil . . . but overcome evil with good. Paul here focuses on how Christians are to respond to those who persecute them. He begins by cautioning Christians not to repay evil for evil (cf. Matt. 5:38–39, 44–45; Luke 6:29, 35). Not exacting revenge is an honorable response even in the eyes of the world. Verse 18 adds a realistic note encouraging believers to be at peace with others whenever they can (“if it is possible”). This leaves open the possibility that believers cannot be at peace with their enemies all the time. Thus, for example, one cannot compromise the gospel to keep peace.
Verses 19–20 offer contrasting instructions. According to 12:19, Christians should leave their persecutors to the Lord (quoting Deut. 32:35, which speaks of God’s judgment on the nations that hurt Israel).9But 12:20 challenges Christians that while God is to avenge injustice perpetrated against them, believers are to love their enemies, in tangible ways: feeding them and giving them drink (quoting Prov. 25:21–22). These acts of kindness will “heap burning coals” on the heads of the Christians’ enemies. The most common view of this is that Christians’ loving actions will create in their persecutors burning shame and remorse. Verse 21 seems to confirm this interpretation: showing love overcomes evil with good—the good actions of the believer, but also the good response (hopefully) of the enemy in terms of repentance. Moreover, 12:21 returns us to 12:9: love consists in doing good and avoiding evil. This is the new-covenant ethic of love.
Theological Insights
Several theological insights greet the reader of Romans 12:9–21. First, the key characteristic of the Christian life is love, toward God, the family of God, and even one’s enemies. Second, if the perpetrators of harm upon Christians do not repent, God will avenge his children. But that task belongs to God, not to Christians. Third, 12:9–21 delineates how love is to be shown: (a) love toward God expresses itself in devotion; (b) love toward others, especially believers, is demonstrated by selflessness; (c) love toward enemies is shown not by retaliating, but by caring for them with deeds of kindness. This type of threefold love brought great success to the early church and will do so to the modern church as well.
Teaching the Text
Perhaps the best approach to Romans 12:9–21 is topical. Thus, a sermon title could be “The New-Covenant Commandment to Love”: love God (12:11–12); love the family of God (12:10, 13, 15, 16); love your enemies (12:14, 17–21).
First, the Old and New Testaments both admonish believers to love the Lord their God supremely. In fact, to put anyone or anything before him is idolatry.
Second, 12:13a admonishes believers to share with those in need, whether Christians or nonbelievers. That the early Christians did so magnificently is documented by Adolf von Harnack in a chapter entitled “The Gospel of Love and Charity.”10Harnack lists at least ten acts of charity by early Christians: (1) alms, (2) support of teachers and officials, (3) support of widows and orphans, (4) support of the sick, the infirm, and the disabled, (5) care of prisoners and people languishing in the mines, (6) care of poor people needing burial, and of the dead in general, (7) care of slaves, (8) care of those visited by great calamities, (9) furnishing work, and insisting upon work, and (10) care of brothers and sisters on a journey (hospitality), and of churches in poverty or any peril.
Third, loving our enemies is easier said than done, but it is nonetheless the way of the follower of Jesus. Only heaven will reveal how many Christians have sincerely prayed, “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.”
Illustrating the Text
Love is shown in devotion to God and selflessness toward other believers.
Biography: Many biographies have been written about the artist Vincent van Gogh (1853–90). His troubled life even became the subject of Don McLean’s popular song “Vincent,” the first line of which, “Starry, starry night,” is borrowed from the title of one of van Gogh’s paintings. A film, Lust for Life (1956), was also made about him. Van Gogh began his life wanting to teach the Bible to poor and working-class people. In London he went to the darkest parts of the city, to the poorest inhabitants. He read his Bible daily, wanting to know it well. After getting some theological education, he took a post as a missionary in a desperately poor coal-mining town in Belgium, choosing to share the squalid living conditions of the miners. He lived among them, visiting the sick and bringing spiritual consolation. He was fanatical in his zeal and self-denial, but consequently those who sent him dismissed him for “undermining the dignity of the priesthood.” After this, he became an artist, his paintings reflecting his love for the common people, the poor, and the suffering.
Love toward one’s enemies is shown through kindness and forgiveness.
History: To better understand the Roman persecution of early Christianity, read Pliny the Younger’s letter to Emperor Trajan (ca. AD 113), written while he was governor of Bithynia, which spells out how he interrogated Christians.
Quotation: Nelson Mandela. Mandela spent twenty-seven years in jail as a result of his attempts to end apartheid in South Africa. He was released in 1990. In 1994 he was elected president of the country in the first open election, and his mission to end apartheid continued. Mandela said, “If there are dreams about a beautiful South Africa, there are also roads that lead to their goal. Two of those roads could be named Goodness and Forgiveness.” Here is a powerful example for Christians to aspire to in forgiving others for the sake of Christ.
True Story: Ruby Bridges was the first African American child to attend an all-white elementary school in the South. Robert Coles, child psychiatrist and author, tells of her in his book Children of Crisis (1967), and her story has also been published as a children’s book entitled The Story of Ruby Bridges (1995), written by Coles and illustrated by George Ford. Ruby was one of the black children who, in the face of abusive, even potentially violent resistance, began the process of school desegregation in New Orleans. Day after day, Ruby was ushered to and from school alone while onlookers taunted her. Coles was deeply troubled by the calmness of the child, and when he visited the family, Ruby’s mother told him that Ruby prayed every night for the mob that threatened and harassed her. When he asked the parents why they would ask this of Ruby, they were perplexed and answered that this was what a person is to do, that it was the Christian thing to do.